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Anger and blame: how to dissolve anger and blame

Bad habits: how to break bad habits

Being yourself: how to be yourself with others

Boredom: how to always be interested

Boundaries: how to create and maintain good boundaries with others

Confidence: simple keys to more self-confidence

Conflicts with others: how to resolve any conflict

Day-by-day loving life: how to make your life a work of art

Defensiveness: how to let go of defensiveness

Depression: how to dissolve depression

Direction of your life: how to find your life direction

Eating healthfully: how to eat healthfully consistently

Exercising: how to exercise persistently

Frustrations: how to end frustrations

Good habits: how to create new good habits

Gratitude: how to feel grateful all the time

Guilty: how to dissolve guilt or self-blame

Hurt or betrayed: how to dissolve hurt or feeling betrayed

Indecisive: how to end indecisiveness

Job satisfaction: how to love your job

Lazy: how to end laziness

Lonely: how to never be lonely again

Making requests: how to easily make requests of another

Men: what do they want from women (more than sex)

“No” to others: how to say “no” to another

Organized: how to get organized and stay that way

Overwhelmed: how to dissolve overwhelm

Perfectionism: how to end your perfectionism

Persistence: how to easily be persistent

Pressured: how to dissolve stress or feeling pressured

Procrastination: how to never procrastinate again

Promises: how to make them and keep them

Quitting: how to know when to quit and feel good about it

Relationship problems: how to resolve any issue with another

Romance problems: how to get him/her, enjoy him/her, and keep him/her

Time enough for everything: how to always have enough time

Unhappy or sad: how to dissolve unhappiness or sadness

Victim: how to step outside of being a victim

Women: what do they want from men (more than money)

Worrying: how to never worry again

ALL PROBLEMS

Abandoned: fear of being abandoned (left all alone, deserted, cast off, neglected, forgotten)
Abandoned: fear of abandoning another
Accepting: how to accept a circumstance (allow, embrace, face it, grant being to, show respect to, unresist, be curious about, be understanding of)
Accepting: how to accept another
Accepting: when another doesn't accept you
Accommodating: too accommodating
Accommodating: not accommodating enough
Adaptable: how to be more adaptable
Addiction: caffeine
Addiction: chocolate
Addiction: cocaine
Addiction: codependency
Addiction: coffee
Addiction: computer games
Addiction: computers and Internet
Addiction: dealing with another’s addiction
Addiction: drinking
Addiction: exercising
Addiction: food
Addiction: gambling
Addiction: illegal drugs
Addiction: legal drugs
Addiction: pornography
Addiction: sex
Addiction: shopping
Addiction: sleeping
Addiction: sleeping pills
Addiction: smoking (how to stop smoking)
Addiction: soft drinks
Addiction: television
Addiction: to getting things done
Addiction: tobacco
Addiction: working
Admiring: how to feel and show admiration to another
Admiring: how to feel and show admiration to yourself
Affectionate: how to feel and show affection
Agreement: how to get agreement
Agreement: how to deal with disagreement
Alcohol: alcohol problem that another around you has
Alcohol: alcohol problem you have
Alienated: another feeling alienated from you
Alienated: feeling alienated from another or the world
Alienated: feeling alienated from yourself
Anger: another getting angry with you
Anger: easily get angry with others
Annoyed: another getting annoyed with you
Annoyed: easily annoyed by another
Annoyed: easily annoyed for circumstances
Anxious: how to respond to another’s anxiety
Anxious: undoing your own anxiety
Apology: difficulty in giving an apology
Apology: difficulty in refraining from apologizing
Apology: difficulty in accepting another’s apology
Appreciate: how to feel and show appreciation to another
Appreciate: how to feel and show appreciation to yourself
Apprehensive: often apprehensive
Approachable: how to be approachable
Approval: difficulty in receiving and believing approval from another
Approval: difficulty in showing approval to another
Approval: wanting approval too much from another
Arguing: dealing with another trying to argue with you
Arguing: how to reduce or eliminate your own tendency to argumentative
Arrogance: dealing with another’s arrogance
Arrogance: how to become less arrogant
Assertive: not assertive enough
Assertive: too assertive
Attacking: tendency to attach another
Attaching: feeling attacked by another
Attention: wanting more attention from another
Attention: wanting to give attention to another
Attention: not wanting attention from another
Attention: wanting more attention from others
Authentic: how to be authentic (sincere)
Authentic: difficulty in speaking openly and being authentic
Authentic: how to speak authentically
Authentic: getting in trouble by being too authentic
Authoritative: another being authoritative with you
Authoritative: you being authoritative with another
Avoid: another avoiding you
Avoid: avoiding looking at something you need to look at
Avoid: avoiding taking action about something
Avoid: avoiding talking with another about something
Avoid: you avoiding another
Awkward: another feeling awkward with you
Awkward: you feeling awkward with another

Bad: issues about thinking you’re a bad person
Bad: thinking another person is bad
Balanced: how to feel balanced (unbalanced)
Balanced: how to have a balanced life
Believing: believing your not good enough (thoughts)
Believing: believing your not smart enough
Believing: believing your not strong enough
Believing: believing your not excellent enough
Believing: believing your not good looking enough
Believing: believing your not (you fill in the blank)
Belittled: feeling belittled by another
Belittled: belittling another
Betrayed: feeling betrayed by another
Betrayed: you betraying another
Bitching: bitching at another
Bitching: feeling another is bitching at you
Blame: blaming (you fill in the blank)
Blame: blaming a country
Blame: blaming a specific group of people (for example, professors)
Blame: blaming another
Blame: blaming another for blaming you
Blame: blaming bureaucracy
Blame: blaming business
Blame: blaming conservatives
Blame: blaming gays, lesbians, etc
Blame: blaming kids
Blame: blaming liberals
Blame: blaming libertarians
Blame: blaming men
Blame: blaming some ethnic group
Blame: blaming taxes
Blame: blaming the government
Blame: blaming women
Blame: blaming your parents
Blindsided: feeling blindsided
Boredom: feeling that life is boring
Boredom: feeling that something is boring
Boredom: feeling that another is boring
Bossy: you occur as bossy to another
Bossy: another occurs as bossy to you
Boundaries: how to maintain good boundaries with another
Boundaries: how to respond then another steps over your boundary
Bragging: another bragging to you (showing off)
Bragging: the issue of bragging to another
Buffers: the importance of creating and maintaining buffers
Buffers: how to create buffers
Buffers: how to create time buffers
Buffers: how to create money buffers
Buffers: how to create health buffers
Buffers: how to create relationship buffers
Bullied: feeling bullied by another
Bullied: you bullying another
Burden: another feeling burdened by you
Burden: you feeling burdened by another
Burden: you feeling burdened by responsibility and life
Business: another getting in your business
Business: you getting in God’s business
Business: you getting in another’s business
Business: you not attending to your own business
Busy: being too busy
Busy: not being busy enough
Busy: thinking you should be more busy

Calm: how to be calm (serene)

Calm: how to calm down another

Career: how to find a suitable career

Career: can’t make money at the career you want

Career: not happy with your career

Careful: another thinking you are too careful (wary)

Careful: another thinking you not careful enough

Careful: you being too careful

Careful: you not being careful enough

Careless: another thinking you are careless

Careless: you being careless

Caring: another thinking you care too much

Caring: another thinking you don’t care enough

Caring: you caring too much

Caring: you not caring enough

Charisma: how to have charisma

Child: how to be childlike (youthful)

Children: how to resolve a conflict with a child

Children: how to choose whether or not to have children

Children: showing respect to children

Children: creating and maintaining good boundaries with children

Children: how to take care of yourself while taking care of your children

Children: how to resolve conflicts about how to raise children

Children: how to solve your child’s problems

Children: how to deal with money with children

Children: how to deal with how children eat

Children: how to deal with your child’s sexuality

Children: how to deal with your child’s rebelliousness

Choice: what choice do you have?

Choice: what choice did you have?

Choice: what is choice?

Choice: how to make the best choices?

Clarity: how to be clear (not confused)

Clean: another not clean enough for you

Clean: not keeping things or yourself clean enough for another

Clean: not keeping things or yourself clean enough for yourself

Clean: you being too clean

Clean: another being too clean

Clutter: not having things organized and neat (and discarded)

Comfortable: another feeling uncomfortable with you

Comfortable: you feeling too comfortable

Comfortable: you feeling uncomfortable

Comfortable: your unwillingness to feel uncomfortable

Commitment: fear of commitment

Commitment: fear of revoking a commitment

Communicate: fear of not communicating well (communication, talking, listening, communicative)

Communicate: how to communicate well

Communicate: avoiding communication with another (others)

Communicate: another (others) avoiding communication with you

Comparing: comparing yourself negatively with another

Comparing: comparing yourself positively with another

Comparing: fear of another comparing you negatively

Compassion: not feeling compassion for another

Compassion: not having compassion for yourself

Complaining: another complaining to you (whining, nagging, bitching)

Complaining: you complaining about yourself

Complaining: complaining to another about others

Complaining: issues with listening to or handling complaints

Complaining: others complaining behind your back

Complete, incomplete: feeling incomplete with someone

Complete, incomplete: felling incomplete about something

Complete, incomplete: how to get complete with someone

Complete, incomplete: how to get complete about something

Compulsive: acting compulsively

Condemn: condemning another

Condemn: feeling condemned by another

Condemn: condemning yourself

Condescending: feeling condescending towards another

Condescending: feeling another being condescending towards you

Confidence: how to be confident (assured, self-confident)

Confidence: lack of confidence

Confidence: too much confidence

Conflict: you having a conflict with another (disagreement, dispute, argument, arguing)

Conflict: feeling a conflict within yourself

Conflict: another feeling a conflict with you

Confused: another feeling confused by you

Confused: feeling confused

Connected: how to feel connected with another (others)

Connected: how to feel connected with yourself

Conscientious: how to be more conscientious

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Context: how to create an empowering context

Context: how to recognize a disempowering context

Control: feeling controlled or attempted control by another

Control: you controlling another

Control: dealing with a controlling person

Conversation: don’t know how to end a conversation with another (talking)

Conversation: don’t know how to enjoy conversation with another

Conversation: don’t know how to start a conversation with another

Conversation: how to have a mutually enjoyable conversation

Cooperative: how to be cooperative with another

Cooperative: how to get another to cooperate with you

Courage: how to have more courage (brave, bold, fearless, hutzpah)

Courage: how to recognize opportunities for choosing courage

Coward: seeing yourself as a coward

Coward: seeing another as a coward

Craving: how to deal with a craving

Creative: how to be more creative

Critical: feeling criticized by another (criticism, blame, anger, accuse, attack)

Critical: letting go of criticalness of another

Crushed: feeling crushed

Crying: crying too much

Crying: not knowing how to cry

Curious: how to create curiosity

Dangerous: feeling that the world is dangerous/unsafe

Decision: not making good decisions

Decision: how to make good decisions

Decision: being indecisive

Decision: how to decide among too many choices

Defensive: another feeling defensive with you

Defensive: feeling defensive with another

Delighted: how to feel delighted

Demanding: another demanding of you

Demanding: demanding of another

Demanding: demanding of yourself

Depression: another being depressed around you

Depression: you feeling depressed

Deprived: feeling deprived

Desolate: feeling desolate

Desperate: feeling desperate

Devastated: feeling devastated

Devoted: how to feel and show devotion to another

Devoted: how to feel and show devotion to yourself

Different: fear of others thinking you’re different

Different: critical that another is different

Difficult: feeling that life is difficult

Difficult: feeling that something is difficult

Difficult: feeling that another is difficult (difficult person)

​Dignity: how to have dignity

Direction: fear that you’re going in the wrong direction

Direction: lacking life direction

Direction: not following your life direction

Direction: not knowing how to discover your life direction

Disagreement: disagreement about courses of action with another

Disagreement: disagreement about different opinions with another

Disagreement: disagreement about the end result with another

Disappointment: fear of another’s disappointment

Disappointment: feeling disappointed in another

Disapproval: avoiding disapproval of others too much

Disapproval: disapproving of another

Disapproval: fear of disapproval

Disconnected: feeling disconnected from another

Disconnected: feeling disconnected from others

Disconnected: feeling disconnected from life

Disconnected: feeling disconnected from yourself

Disdain: another disdaining you

Disdain: feeling disdain for another

Disgusted: feeling disgusted with another

Disgusted: feeling disgusted with yourself

Dislike: disliking another

Dislike: disliking yourself

Dislike: feeling disliked by another

Disoriented: feeling disoriented

Disrespect: disrespecting another

Disrespect: disrespecting yourself

Disrespect: feeling disrespected by another

Disrespect: feeling disrespected by others

Divorce: how to create a great divorce

Divorce: feeling guilty towards your spouse for (the idea of) getting a divorced

Divorce: feeling guilty regarding your children for (the idea of) getting divorced

Divorce: frightened of getting a divorce

Divorce: how to know whether or not to get a divorce

Divorce: thinking another (or others) will think you’re bad for getting a divorce

Divorce: thinking that getting a divorce is bad or you’re a bad person for getting a divorce

Divorce: thinking you’re a bad parent if you get divorced

Divorce: worrying about property settlement if you get divorced

Divorce: worrying about your children if you get divorced

Divorce: worrying about your survival if you get divorced

Divorce: worrying that God will blame you if you get divorced

Divorce: worried about the process of getting divorced

Divorce: feeling too sorry for your spouse to get a divorce

Dominated: dominating another

Dominated: feeling dominated by another

Downhearted: feeling downhearted

Drinking: how to stop drinking

Drugs: how to stop drugs

Dull: feeling that life is dull

Dull: feeling that you are dull

Dull: feeling that another is dull

Dying: fear of another dying

Dying: fear of dying yourself

Dying: fear of death

Easy going: how to be easy going (carefree)

Easy: how to make things easy

Eating: eating carbohydrates

Eating: eating disorder

Eating: eating junk foods

Eating: eating meat

Eating: eating poorly

Eating: eating sugar

Eating: eating too much

Eating: not eating enough

Eating: not eating healthfully

Eating: don’t have enough time to eat right

Eating: don’t eat well when eating with others

Eating: don’t know how to manage eating well with my family

Eating: don’t know how to get my family to eat well

Eating: don’t have enough money to eat well

Effective: upset that another is not effective

Effective: want/need to be more effective

Effective: should be more effective

Efficient: upset that another is not efficient

Efficient: want/need to be more efficient

Efficient: should be more efficient

Embarrassed: embarrassing another

Embarrassed: feeling embarrassed by another

Embarrassed: fear of embarrassment

Emotional: another too emotional around you

Emotional: easily affected by another’s emotions or thoughts

Emotional: moody

Emotional: overly sensitive

Empathetic: how to be more empathetic

Empathetic: how to be less empathetic

Encourage: how to encourage another

Encourage: how to encourage yourself

Energy: lack of energy (vigor, enthusiasm, vitality)

Energy: too much energy

Enough: how to have enough (adequate)

Enthusiasm: lack of enthusiasm

Envy: another envying you

Envy: envying another

​Euphoric: how to be euphoric (ecstatic)

Excitement: lack of excitement

Excitement: too excited

Exercising: getting my-now and my-next on the same page with exercising

Exercising: not exercising well or enough

Exercising: not knowing how to enjoy exercise

Exercising: not knowing the best exercise

Exercising: don’t have enough time for exercise

Exercising: don’t have enough money to exercise well

Expectations: expectations for myself not being met

Expectations: expectations of another not being met

Expectations: expectations for my life not being met

Expectations: expectations for an event/activity not being met

Fair: feeling that you are treated unfairly by another
Fair: you treating another unfairly
Fair: feeling that you are treated unfairly by others
Fair: feeling that others are treated unfairly
Fair: feeling that life is unfair
Fair: thinking that life or others should be fair
Fault: another fault finding with you
Fault: fault finding in another
Fault: fault finding in yourself
Fear: fear of not looking good (worry, anxious, nervous, apprehensive)
Fear: fear of (you fill in the blank, for example "the dark")
Fear: fear of doing the “undoing fear” process
Fear: fear of fear
Fear: fear of not feeling fear
Fear: fear of another’s fear of you
Fear: fear of others’ fear
Fear: fear of doctors (dentists, hospitals)
Firing: difficulty in firing someone (laying another off)
Firing: difficulty in getting fired (you getting laid off)
Firing: fear of getting fired
Fired: fear of another getting fired
Fired: angry about getting fired
Flexible: how to be flexible
Flexible: how to be more flexible
Focus: lack of focus
Focus: so focused that you lose track of other things
Foolhardy: being foolhardy
Foolish: fear of appearing silly or foolish to another
Foolish: thinking another is foolish
Forgive: how to forgive another (accept, understand)
Forgive: how to get another to forgive you
Forgive: how to be okay if another does not forgive you
Fragile: feeling you are fragile
Fragile: feeling another is fragile
Fragile: feeling life is fragile
Free: how to feel free
Freedom: feeling lack of freedom
Freedom: feeling too much freedom
Freedom: feeling another has too much freedom
Frenzied: feeling frenzied
Frenzied: feeling another is frenzied
Friends: don’t know how to keep friends
Friends: don’t know how to make friends
Friends: lack of friends
Friends: too shy to make friends
Friends: have too many friends
Friends: don’t know how to have good friends
Friends: don’t know how to get close with friends
Friends: feeling taken advantage of by friends
Frowning: how to stop frowning
Frustration: another feeling frustrated with you
Frustration: feeling frustrated with another
Frustration: frustrated with yourself
Frustration: feeling frustrated with a task
Funny: how to be funny

Generous: how to be generous (giving)
Gentle: how to feel and show gentleness to another
Gentle: how to feel and show gentleness to yourself
Ghosts: fear of ghosts
Giving up: giving up too easily
Giving up: not giving up when you should
Giving up: not knowing when to give up
Giving up: not knowing when to keep going
Giving up: giving up too soon
Giving up: giving up too late
Giving up: blaming myself for giving up
Giving up: blaming another for giving up
Giving up: fear of being blamed for giving up
Giving up: thinking that people should not give up so easily
Glaring: glaring at another
Garing: feeling glared out by another or others
Global warming: feeling frightened of global warming
Global warming: angry at others for not being concerned about global warming
Goals: not knowing how to enjoy the process of going for the goals
Goals: not persistent in pursuing goals
Goals: not setting goals
Goals: not knowing how to set goals
Goals: fear of setting goals
Goals: fear of not setting goals
Goals: setting goals that are not big enough
Goals: setting goals that are too big
Golden handcuffs: how to escape or have freedom from golden handcuffs
Golden handcuffs: how to avoid golden handcuffs
Good will: how to have good will towards others
Gossip: gossiping about another
Gossip: others gossiping about you
Gossip: another gossiping about others
Graceful: how to be more graceful
Gracious: how to feel and be gracious with another
Grateful: how to feel and show gratitude to another
Grateful: how to feel and show gratitude to yourself
Grief: feeling grief (bereavement)
Grief: another feeling grief
Guarded: feeling guarded with another
Guarded: feeling guarded with others
Guarded: feeling guarded with life
Guarded: another guarded with you
Guilt: another feeling guilty with regard to you (another blaming themselves)
Guilt: feeling guilted by another (another blaming you)
Guilt: feeling guilty that you are better off than another or others (you blaming yourself)
Guilt: feeling guilty (feeling blamed)
Guilt: feeling guilty about or feeling blamed for (you fill in the blank)
Gun violence: fear of gun violence

Habit: another cursing with you, using bad words
Habit: another freeloading on you
Habit: another gambling
Habit: another littering
Habit: another’s marihuana use
Habit: how to break a bad habit
Habit: chewing with mouth open
Habit: cursing, using bad words with another
Habit: eavesdropping
Habit: exaggerating
Habit: excess use of over the counter medicines
Habit: excessive throat clearing
Habit: fidgeting
Habit: fighting
Habit: flaking out
Habit: freeloading on others
Habit: gambling
Habit: grinding your teeth
Habit: how to create a good habit
Habit: insomnia
Habit: littering
Habit: physical violence
Habit: your marijuana use
Habit: another’s marijuana use
Hard: feeling something is hard (difficult)
Hard: feeling that life is hard
Harmonious: how to create harmony
Hate: feeling hated by another (hostility)
Hate: feeling hateful; hating another
Hate: self-hate
Health: how to get and stay in great health
Health: how and what to eat for great health
Health: what supplements to take for great health
Health: how to exercise for great health
Health: how to create a mind for great health
Heartbroken: having a broken heart
Heaven: feeling/believing you must be a good person to get into heaven
Heaven: feeling/believing that you must repent to get into heaven
Heaven: feeling/believing another (others) must be a good person to get into heaven
Hell: feeling/believing you must avoid doing bad things to stay out of hell
Hell: feeling/believing that you must repent to stay out of hell
Hell: feeling/believing another (others) must avoid doing bad things to stay out of hell
Helpful: how other can be helpful to you
Helpful: how to help others
Hesitant: hesitating
Holidays/Vacations: how to have great holidays
Holidays/Vacations: how to take inexpensive holidays
Holidays/Vacations: how to find time for holidays
Hope: how to let go of the bad kind of hope
Hope: how to increase the good kind of hope
Hotheaded: being hotheaded
Hotheaded: another hotheaded with you
Humble: how to be less humble
Humble: how to be more humble
Humiliated: another humiliating you
Humiliated: fear of humiliation by another
Humiliated: you humiliating another
Hurt: another feeling hurt by you
Hurt: feeling hurt by another

Illness: fear of illness (sickness, bad health)
Illness: fear of illness in another
Illness: how to get and stay in great health
Impatient: another feeling impatient with you
Impatient: feeling impatient with another
Impatient: feeling impatient with yourself
Impatient: feeling impatient with waiting
Impatient: feeling impatient with a process
Impatient: feeling impatient with not getting a result quick enough
Impolite: being impolite to another (tactless, brusk, inconsiderate, discourteous, disrespectful, insulting, offensive, rude, unfeeling, unfriendly, ungracious, unkind)
Impolite: another being impolite to you
Impulsive: fear of your own impulsiveness
Impulsive: making bad decisions from being impulsive
Impulsive: Upset with another’s impulsiveness
Impulsive: frightened of another’s impulsiveness
Independent: not independent enough
Independent: too independent
Indignant: indignant with another
Indignant: another is indignant with you
Inferior: you feel inferior to another
Inferior: another feels inferior to you
Influence: how to increase your influence
Influence: not having enough influence
Insecurity: feeling insecure (not feeling safe)
Insensitive: not being sensitive with others
Insensitive: another being insensitive to you
Inspired: how to inspire others
Inspired: how to inspire yourself
Insult: feeling insulted by another
Insult: insulting another
Integrity: feeling another doesn’t have integrity
Integrity: how fundamental integrity will solve every problem
Integrity: how to build integrity, step by step
Interrupting: being interrupted by another
Interrupting: interrupting another
Intimacy: how to create and maintain intimacy
Intimidated: feeling intimidated by another
Intimidated: another feeling intimidated by you
Intimidated: feeling intimidated by a circumstance
Intolerant: feeling intolerant of another
Intolerant: another intolerant of you
Invitations: difficulty in inviting another
Invitations: difficulty in saying “no” to invitations
Irritated: easily irritated by another
Irritated: irritating another

Jealous: another feeling jealous of you
Jealous: feeling jealous of another
Job: not happy with your job
Job: not knowing how to be happy with your boss
Job: not knowing how to be happy with your colleagues
Job: not knowing how to be happy with your job
Job: not knowing how to get a good job
Job: not knowing how to quit a job
Job: not knowing what job you might like
Job: not knowing whether or not to quit a job
Judgmental, make wrong: another judging you (making you wrong)
Judgmental: you judging another/others (making them wrong)
Judgmental: judging yourself (making yourself wrong)
Kind: how to be kind (unkind)
Kind: another is unkind towards you
Kind: feeling unkind towards another
Kind: treating yourself unkindly
Know-it-all: dealing with a know-it-all
Know-it-all: feeling like you know-it-all

Lazy: it bothers you that another is lazy
Lazy: you are lazy
Laughing: how to laugh more
Laughing: fear of another (others) laughing at you
Lighthearted: how to be light hearted (playful)
Listening: another complaining about you not listening
Listening: becoming a better listener
Listening: how to get people to listen to you
Listening: how to respond when you don’t feel listened to
Listening: not feeling another is listening to you
Listening: not having good listening skills
Listening: not listening well to another
Listening: how to have a good balance between listening and talking
Listening: listening to yourself
Lonely: another feeling lonely with you
Lonely: feeling lonely
Lost: feeling lost
Loving: afraid another will leave you
Loving: afraid to fall in love
Loving: another not feeling loved by you
Loving: feeling unloved by another
Loving: feeling unloved by yourself
Loving: not feeling loving towards another
Loving: not sure how to express your love
Loving: how to find love
Loving: how to maintain love
Loving: how to deal with unrequited love
Loving: how to deal with missing someone
Loving: how to deal with a broken heart
Lying: difficulty in telling a good lie
Lying: difficulty in telling the truth
Lying: difficulty in another lying to you
Lying: difficulty in another telling you the truth
Lying: knowing when to lie and when to tell the truth

Manipulate: feeling manipulated by another
Manipulate: manipulating another
Marriage: how to address parental involvement in your marriage
Marriage: how to balance marriage and work
Marriage: how to create a great marriage
Marriage: how to create/maintain passion in your marriage
Marriage: how to find the right person to marry
Marriage: how to attract the right person to marry
Marriage: how to handle an affair in marriage
Marriage: how to handle broken promises in marriage
Marriage: how to handle disagreements about children
Marriage: how to handle disagreements about whether or not to have children
Marriage: how to handle health issues in marriage
Marriage: how to handle money issues in marriage
Marriage: not knowing how to improve your marriage
Marriage: not knowing how to resolve conflicts in marriage
Marriage: not knowing whether or not the person you are considering is suitable for you
Marriage: not knowing whether or not to get married
Marriage: not knowing whether or not to stay married
Marriage: fear of getting married
Marriage: fear of not getting married
Marriage: what do men want in marriage?
Marriage: what do women want in marriage?
Masochism: masochism
Masturbation: feeling masturbation is wrong
Mature: how to be mature (grow up)
Mean-spirited: feeling another is mean-spirited towards you
Mean-spirited: feeling mean-spirited towards another
Meaning: can’t find the meaning of life
Meaning: life feeling meaningless
Mellow: how to be mellow
Men: not knowing how to accept a man leaving you
Men: not knowing how to be authentic with a man
Men: not knowing how to break up with a man
Men: not knowing how to have a great relationship with a man
Men: not knowing what men want (even more than sex)
Men: not understanding men
Mistakes: fear of being criticized for making mistakes
Mistakes: getting angry when another makes mistakes
Mistakes: fear of making mistakes
Mistakes: criticizing yourself for making mistakes
Mistakes: criticizing another for making mistakes
Money: how to manage money well
Money: how to save money
Money: need more money
Money: overspending
Money: disagreements with another over money
Money: fear of not having enough money
Moody: another moody around you
Moody: you being moody
Motivated: how to be motivated
Motivated: how to motivate others
Motivated: lack of motivation

Nagging: being nagged by another (complain, bitch)
Nagging: nagging another
Nagging: another feeling nagged by you
Natural: how to be more natural
Neat: another not keeping things neat around you
Neat: not keeping things neat
Neat: being too neat
Negative: hating the negative thoughts/feelings of another
Negative: hating your own negatives thoughts/feelings
Negative: how to deal with negative thoughts/feelings
Nervous: feeling nervous with another
Nervous: another feeling nervous with you
Nervous: feeling nervous about a situation
No: difficulty in saying “no” to another
No: difficulty in someone saying “no” to you
No: fear of saying “no” to another
No: fear of saying “no” to yourself
No: not knowing a good way to say “no”

Offended: feeling offended by another
Offended: offending another (others)
Offers: difficulty in making offers
Offers: difficulty is saying “no” to offers
Old: afraid of getting old
Old: feeling old
Old: difficulty in being old
Open-minded: how to become open-minded
Open-minded: how to deal with another who is not open-minded
Optimistic: dangerous optimism
Optimistic: not knowing how to be more optimistic
Organizing: difficulty in starting to organize
Organizing: not know what to do with things
Organized: not keeping things organized
Organized: being too organized
Ostracized: fear of being ostracized by a group
Overwhelm: not enough time to finish everything
Overwhelm: too many things to do
Overwhelm: feeling too much pressure

Pain: fear of pain

Pain: issue with feeling pain

Pain: resistance to pain (suffering)

Pain: fear of causing pain in others

Pain: difference between pain and suffering

Paranoid: being paranoid

Paranoid: thinking another (others) are paranoid

Partnership: how to do the Partnership Conversation

Passion: how to feel and show passion to another

Passion: lack having a life passion

Passion: lack of passion about life

Passion: lack of romantic passion

Passion: having too much passion

Patient: how to feel and be patient with yourself

Patient: how to feel and show patience with another

Peace: lack of feeling peaceful

Peace: life being too peaceful

Perfectionist: another expecting you to be perfect

Perfectionist: being a perfectionist

Perfectionist: being around another who is a perfectionist

Perfectionist: working with a perfectionist

Permission: difficulty in acting without permission

Permission: difficulty in asking for permission

Permission: being in another’s business without their permission

Permission: another being in your business without your permission

Persistent: how to be persistent (perseverant, tenacious, responsible)

Persistent: being too persistent

Persistent: not being persistent enough

Persistent: how to give up being persistent

Pessimistic: dealing with another who is pessimistic

Pessimistic: feeling pessimistic

Pity: feeling pity for another

Pity: feeling pity for yourself; self-pity

Plans: don’t know how to enjoy following the plan

Plans: don’t know how to make a good plan

Plans: not making plans

Plans: not persistent in prosecuting the plan

Playful: how to be playful (light hearted)

Plans: fear of making plans

Power: another feeling powerless around you

Power: feeling powerless

Pregnancy: fear of pregnancy

Prejudiced: feeling prejudiced towards another

Prejudiced: another prejudiced towards you

Prejudiced: feeling prejudiced towards another being prejudiced

Present: how to be present with another

Present: how to be present with yourself

Present: how to be present

Pressure: feeling pressure from another

Pressure: pressuring another

Pressure: pressuring yourself

Pressure: feeling pressured by society

Privacy: not having enough privacy

Privacy: fear of lack of privacy

Privacy: having too much privacy

Procrastination: another procrastinating around you (putting things off)

Procrastination: procrastinating yourself (putting things off)

Productive: how to be more productive

Promises: avoiding making promises to another

Promises: avoiding making promises to yourself

Promises: not keeping promises to another

Promises: not keeping promises to yourself

Promises: not knowing how to enjoy keeping promises

Promises: overpromising

Punctual: another not being punctual with you

Punctual: you not being punctual (arriving late)

Punishing: punishing another

Punishing: punishing yourself

Quarrelling: quarrelling with another
Quarrelling: another trying to quarrel with you
Quitting: quitting too soon (giving up)
Quitting: not quitting soon enough
Quitting: criticising yourself for quitting
Quitting: frightened others will be disappointed in you for quitting
Quitting: frightened others will blame you for quitting
Quitting: not knowing when to quit or to keep going
Quitting: how to feel good about yourself for quitting

Rape: fear of rape (sexual assault, sexual harassment)
Rape: incomplete about a rape
Rebellion: how to let go of rebelliousness
Rebellion: how to respond to another's rebelliousness
Rejection: difficulty in another rejecting you
Rejection: difficulty in rejecting another
Rejection: fear of being rejected
Regret: feeling regret (remorse)
Regret: fear of feeling regret
Regret: fear of another feeling regret about you
Relationships: concerned about ability to be authentic in a relationship (marriage, girlfriend, boyfriend)
Relationships: concerned about breaking another’s heart
Relationships: concerned about getting a broken heart
Relationships: concerned about losing one’s freedom in a relationship
Relationships: frightened of getting into a relationship
Relationships: how to end a relationship well
Relationships: how to improve a relationship
Relationships: how to know whether or not to end a relationship
Reliable: how to be reliable
Remorseful
Requests: fear of making requests (boundaries)
Requests: fear of saying “no” to requests
Requests: how to say “no” to requests respectfully
Requests: not knowing how to make effective requests
Requests: not making bold requests
Rescuing: you expecting another to rescue you
Rescuing: you recusing others (as a problem)
Resentment: another resenting you
Resentment: feeling resentment towards another
Reserved: you being too reserved
Reserved: another too reserved around you
Resigned: feeling resigned about life
Resigned: feeling resigned about somebody or something
Resigned: another feeling resigned
Resistance: another showing resistance to you
Resistance: being resistant to another
Resistance: resisting fear
Resistance: resisting pain
Resistance: resisting risk
Resistance: resisting another controlling you
Resourceful: how to be resourceful
Respect: not feeling respected by another
Respect: not showing respect to another
Responsible: how to be responsible
Responsive: how to be more responsive
Restless: feeling restless
Righteous: being righteous about something
Righteous: being righteous with another
Righteous: being righteous with yourself
Risk: being too risky
Risk: ignoring or denying the risks inherent in some circumstance
Risk: unwilling to take risks
Risk: thinking there shouldn’t be any risk
Risk: not the risks of life
Romance: concerned about ability to be authentic in a romance (marriage, girlfriend, boyfriend)
Romance: concerned about breaking another’s heart
Romance: concerned about losing one’s freedom in a romance
Romance: concerned about your heart getting broken
Romance: frightened of getting into a romance
Romance: lack of romance
Romance: how to be romantic
Romance: how to end a romance well
Romance: how to find Mr. Right
Romance: how to find Ms. Right
Romance: how to improve a romance
Romance: what are the five love languages
Romance: what men really want (more than sex)
Romance: what women really want (more than money)
Romance: not knowing whether or not to end a romance
Rude: being rude to another
Rude: another being rude with you

Sabotage: self-sabotage

Sadism: sadism

Sadism: another being sadist with you

Sadness: another feeling sad

Sadness: another feeling sad about you

Sadness: you feeling sad

Satisfied: how to be satisfied (content, fulfilled)

Satisfied: how to create satisfaction (grounded, centered)

Saving: how to save money

Saving: how to save time

School: how to enjoy school (education)

School: how to get a good education

School: how to avoid school

School: how school can be toxic

Scold: scolding another

Scold: feeling scolded by another

Screaming: another screaming at you

Screaming: screaming at another

Screaming: screaming for the fun of it

Secretive: being too secretive

Secretive: another being secretive with you

Secrets: another telling your secrets to others

Secrets: another telling secrets of others to you

Secrets: telling your secrets to another

Self-absorbed: being self-absorbed

Self-absorbed: another being self-absorbed around you

Self-confidence: lacking self-confidence

Self-confidence: having too much self-confidence

Self-confidence: how to increase your self-confidence

Self-conscious: being self-conscious

Self-conscious: another being self-conscious around you

Self-esteem: lack of self-esteem

Self-esteem: how to increase your self-esteem

Self-esteem: another lacking self-esteem around you

Self-esteem: having too much self-esteem

Self-reflective: how to become self-reflective

Self-reflective: how to become self-reflective

Self-sufficient: how to be self-sufficient

Sensitive: being too sensitive (easily taking offense)

Sensitive: another being too sensitive with you

Sensitive: how to be sensitive to another (others)

Sensitive: how to be sensitive to yourself

Serious: how to lighten up

Serious: being too serious

Serious: not being serious enough

Sex: how to have great sex

Sex: fear of having sex

Sex: how to have more sex

Sex: how to be safe with sex

Sex: getting attached with sex

Sex: sex and romance

Sex: best sex position in the world

Shallow: being too shallow

Shallow: thinking that another is shallow

Shame: feeling ashamed

Shame: shaming another

Shutting down: shutting down on life

Shutting down: another shutting down around  you

Shy: another is shy with you

Shy: your shyness with another (others)

Silly: fear of appearing silly or foolish to another

Slow: doing things too slowly

Slow: another doing things too slowly

Slow: doing things too quickly

Slow: another doing things too quickly

Smart: how to be smart (intelligent)

Smile: how to smile less

Smile: how to smile more

Sorry: feeling sorry for another

Sorry: feeling sorry for yourself

Stable: how to stay centered and grounded

Stress: another feeling stressed (in general)

Stress: another feeling stressed with you

Stress: how to get rid of stress

Stubborn: being stubborn

Stubborn: dealing with the stubbornness of another

Stupid: another thinking you are stupid

Stupid: criticising yourself for being stupid

Stupid: thinking another is stupid

Suicide: indecision about

Suicide: how to decide about suicide

Suicide: upset by another’s suicide

Suicide: concerned about another possibly committing suicide

Sulk: another sulking with you

Sulk: you sulking

Sullen: you being sullen

Sullen: another being sullen with you

Superficial: feeling superficial

Superficial: thinking another is superficial

Superior: another feeling superior to you

Superior: feeling superior to another

Suspicious: feelings suspicious of another (others)

Suspicious: another feeling suspicious of your

Swearing: swearing too much

Swearing: not swearing enough

Swearing: another swearing too much around you

Swearing: another swearing too much with you

Tactless: being tactless with another (others)

Tackless: another being tactless with you

Telephoning: enjoy answering the telephone

Telephoning: don’t enjoy answering the telephone

Telephoning: don’t like telephone solicitors

Territorial: another person’s boundaries easily violated

Territorial: your boundaries easily violated

Terrorism: feeling frightened of

Time: feel like you’re killing time

Time: feel like you’re wasting time

Time: feeling impatient

Time: feeling like I am stealing from this to do that

Time: feeling overwhelmed

Time: feeling the pressure of time

Time: not having enough free time

Time: not having enough time

Time: not having enough time to finish everything

Time: too many things to do

Time: want/need to have better time management

Time: time moves too slowly

Time: time moves too fast

Timid: feeling timid with another (others)

Timid: another feeling timid with you

Tired: feeling tired (fatigued, exhausted, weary)

Tolerant: how to create tolerance

Touchy: another is touchy with you (defensive)

Touchy: your are easily touchy

Trapped: feeling trapped (lack of freedom)

Trusting: how to be less trusting

Trusting: how to be more trusting

Truth: how to think about truth

Truth: when and how to tell the truth

Truth: when and how to tell a lie

Truth: rewarding the truth in another

Truth: getting curious when another doesn't tell you the truth

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Uncaring: uncaring towards another (others)

Uncaring: another is uncaring towards you

Uncaring: uncaring towards yourself

Understanding: how to get another to understand you (forgiving)

Understanding: how to show understanding to yourself

Understanding: how to understand another)

Unfair: feeling that another or others are unfair

Unfair: being unfair to another

Unfair: others are unfair to another (others)

Unhappy: another feeling unhappy

Unhappy: another feeling unhappy with you

Unhappy: feeling unhappy

Unresponsive: you are unresponsive to another (others)

Unresponsive: another (others) are unresponsive to you

Unsafe: feeling unsafe

Unsafe: feeling unsafe with men

Unsafe: feeling unsafe with women

Unworthy: feeling unworthy

Unworthy: feeling another (others) are unworthy

Upset: another feeling upset with you

Upset: feeling upset with another

Upset: how to avoid upsets

Upset: feeling upset

Upset: easily getting upset

Useless: feeling useless

Useless: feeling another is useless

Vanity: how to deal with another's vanity
Vanity: what to do about your own vanity
Victim: another being the victim of you
Victim: being a victim of another being a victim
Victim: feeling like a victim of men
Victim: feeling like a victim of some group of people
Victim: feeling like a victim of someone in authority
Victim: feeling like the victim of government
Victim: feeling like the victim of culture
Victim: feeling like the victim of reality
Victim: feeling like a victim of women
Victim: feeling like a victim of your children
Victim: feeling like a victim of your husband or wife
Victim: feeling like a victim of your parents
Victim: feeling like you’re a victim of another (others)
Victim: feeling like you’re a victim of life or circumstances
Victim: believing the world is full of victims

Waste: fear of wasting money
Waste: fear of wasting things
Waste: fear of wasting time
Waste: upset when another (others) waste
Waste: how to choose courage to waste
Weak: feeling weak
Weak: thinking you shouldn’t be weak
Weak: thinking that another (others) are weak
Weight: how to lose weight
Weight: feeling ashamed of being overweight
Weight: criticizing another (others) for being overweight
Weight: how to have a healthy weight
Weird: fear of appearing weird (strange, abnormal)
Weird: thinking another (others) are weird
Welcoming: how to be welcoming
Wise: how to be wise (wisdom)
Withdrawing: Withdrawing from another
Withdrawing: another withdrawing from you
Women: how to accept a woman leaving you
Women: how to be authentic with a woman
Women: how to break up with a woman
Women: how to have a great relationship with a woman
Women: what women want (even more than money)
Women: not understanding women
Workaholic: being a workaholic
Workaholic: another being a workaholic
Worry: how to stop worrying (anxious, nervous, apprehensive, fear of)
Worry: worry about (you fill in the blank)
Worry: worry that without worry things will not turn out well
Worry: worrying about a relationship
Worry: worrying about accidents
Worry: worrying about death or dying
Worry: worrying about getting older
Worry: worrying about global warming and environment
Worry: worrying about money
Worry: worrying about others’ disapproval
Worry: worrying about security
Worry: worrying about taxes
Worry: worrying about terrorism
Worry: worrying about the country and world
Worry: worrying about what others are thinking of you
Worry: worrying about worry
Worry: worrying about your career
Worry: worrying about your children
Worry: worrying about your health
Worry: worrying about your job
Worry: worrying about your life relationship
Worry: worrying about your parents
Worry: worrying about your wife or husband
Worry: worrying that others have it better than you
Worry: worrying that you’re not working hard enough
Worry: worrying that you’re too lazy
Worry: worrying your future

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